Verbal & Non-Verbal Communication Listening Skills You Need
Verbal skills are an important element in all interactions, be they personal or business. What verbal skills do you need?
It is the two-way interaction that occurs, both orally and with body language.
What is said with actions is as important, if not more so, than what is said with words.
But here we’re going to focus our attention on the importance of verbal communication and what it will mean for your relationship.
Keep in mind that when I talk about how things affect your relationship, I’m mainly concerned with your success in the realm of seduction.
Communication with words is something we all do on a daily basis.
But, just like when you’re asked to give an impromptu speech, being asked to communicate in a particular situation just makes many of you cringe, lock up, and find yourself at a loss for words
Why? Mainly because when you have to think about what to say, you suddenly become concerned about what you’re saying
But if you just let it happen without any expectations, somehow everything works out a whole lot better
Failed Past Relationships
That being said, think of your past relationships and where communication failed you
Was it something you said in a particular conversation that you came to regret later?
Or was it something she said that you either treated as unimportant or simply didn’t hear at all?
Or could it have been a time when you should have said something to her, but didn’t, and the results were equally regrettable?
Surely all of these have happened to nearly everyone at one time or another
The trick is to not let these past failures define how you communicate now and in the future of your current relationship
We All Do It!
Talking is something we all think about when we hear the word ‘communication’.
But, unfortunately, that first thought is the wrong one if you’re looking for a good relationship with potential for romance
Talking will get you nowhere, and worse, it may cause things to fall backward or even to fall apart
When you talk, you’re expecting someone else to listen
What about the listener?
When does she get the chance to be heard?
That’s why it’s so much better to change your view from one of simply talking to one where you see communication as the carrying on of a conversation
You have two ears and only one mouth, so listen twice as much as you talk!
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