How To Get A Girlfriend: Preparing For The Approach

How To Get A Girlfriend: Preparing For The Approach

The First step:

When mentally preparing for the “task” of actually going out and meeting women.

Try thinking of what would be the absolute worst thing that could happen.

The very worst thing that could happen is she says something like “get lost loser”.

The chances of her saying this are very slim.

If she’s not interested she’ll be more likely to say something like, “I have a boyfriend”.

Or she’ll just try to ignore you and turn to talk to her friends.

You Must Handle Rejection:

So – now that you have a clear vision of the worst thing that can happen, say to yourself, “If that does happen, I can handle it”.

“I can walk away with my pride intact”.

I know that if she dissed me, it’s some problem with her, not me.

She probably has some rule about not meeting guys in bars or she really does have a boyfriend. Or she just came out of a bad relationship and isn’t in the mood to meet someone – but either way, “I’m a man and I can handle anything she will say to me!”

You can only control your attitude, not hers!

Right before you approach a woman you need to get any thought that she might reject you out of your mind. Tell yourself that you are the best thing that will happen to this woman, today! Literally say to yourself, “I am an attractive, amazing guy and this girl should be honored to meet me”.

It’s all a numbers game, the more women you approach the sooner you will succeed!


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